As much as he wanted me to be his cheerleader, I needed to be the cheerleader in my own life first.
The Single Life
Having dealt with a “man boy,” I’ve decided to try being single for a while, and to take a break from jumping into one relationship after another. In doing this, I‘ve been introduced to a new type of womanhood, one that has allowed me to become more confident. Taking a step back from relationships has …
Healing
When I wanted to heal my broken heart, I spent a lot of days praying to get to that healing place. Once I did, my mind was positioned to receive support from another person, someone who was able to encourage me through my healing process because she’d already mastered her own. The only reason this …
Dad (written in my younger days)
I searched for you in other people only to leave me broken by disappointment. I craved for our relationship but it was stolen by the hands of someone else. I dreamed of you at night and you would tell me that, “I am not far, just keep holding on, things will get better.” I needed …
Why did I think I needed this man who constantly rejected me?
We’ve all, at some point, done too much, or have overcompensated in a “situationship” to prove to the man we care for and can see ourselves in a relationship with, that we are capable of being the woman of their dreams. The reality is that maybe we aren’t, in fact, the person for them. Maybe …
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Unbroken Pieces
What I have learned so far on this journey is that, when I was younger, all the decisions that were made in my life were not always my choice. But, as I grew older, I learned that the choice is mine; I decide. So…I made the decision to make the necessary changes in my life …
Part 3: Broken & Why?
I was ready to know why I kept allowing people to hurt me, why my family was the way they are and why I kept getting caught in the same problems. I needed to make sense of my life and what I realize was this – From the day I knew I would have to …
Part 2: Broken From What?
What I realized is that most people who are broken are not even aware that they are broken. Many times we feel we have it all together, but in reality, there are areas in our lives that really just do not seem to come together. I can testify to this: it is how I became …
Part 1: Broken- Three Part Exploration Of Myself
I was tired of the disappointment! I could not understand how I would constantly find myself in the same situations that I knew only made me feel like less than who I was…situations that would only leave me feeling like shit! I was mistreating myself. I was doing the same thing and expecting a different …
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