Who Were You Before the Pain? This question is one of the first questions I had to answer when I first set out on my healing journey. I figured if I can answer this question, I would remember what life felt like before the pain. Once I learned these answers, I was able to see …
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I learned earlier in this journey that some of my responses to shitty life moments (SLM) in relationships were not working out for the best. As much as many of my responses could be justified given the situations I was in, they weren’t helping me to grow, nor some of my relationships. It wasn’t cultivating …
Hey Beautiful People, it’s been a minute; I hope everyone is well! For the year 2023, I am starting off in positivity and crazy faith, and you better believe I’m going to try to keep this energy for the remainder of the year. But, more importantly, I’m taking you with me on this on this …
Friendships are formed based on where we are in life. If you were to look back on your friendships and analyze where you were mentally, emotionally and spiritually, you will understand the connection you made with an ex-friend or friends. For instance, when my Grandmother died, it brought me and an old friend closer, but …
In a recent post, I shared how my ability to be vulnerable was slowly dying mainly due to the experiences in my life. I learned how my public façade masked my fears of getting hurt, and ultimately contributed to the breakdown in one of my relationships, as well as other reasons that are his to …
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Submission without a vision is difficult to ask of a woman. Why? Because it compromises her peace of mind in wanting to feel safe and secure. I know this from experience. I believe there are many women that have a desire to submit to their man. Then, there are those women that believe that they …
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This is the final blog post, to my series called, ‘Fatherless Daughter’. For those who are now joining me, in these posts I take you through a journey of my past relationships and how the absence of my father played a major component throughout them. Unaware of the aftermath of not having a father, I …
In the previous blog posts in this series, I talk about the first four men I dated – none of those relationships were great experiences, but they didn’t kill me! If anything, I learned a lot about myself and my relationship habits: my twenties were all about unhealthy patterns. I fell constantly for men who …
This is final blog post in a 4-part blog series. If you haven’t read parts one through three, you can catch up, starting from Fatherless Daughter 1. Without giving anything away, it’s obvious from the first three posts in this series that, back in my twenties, a pattern had begun to form with the men …
In the first two blog posts of this series, I talk about how being a fatherless daughter had an effect on my first two relationships. I look at the pattern I created with the men I dated, a pattern that I carried with me into my twenties. In my early twenties, I believed that relationships …
