Dear Men Part 5
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Hello Readers,I’m back again with Part 5 to the series “Dear Men”. In this series, I’ve written to men directly, hoping to share the perspective …
Hello Readers, I’m back again with Part 4 to the series “Dear Men”. In this series, I write letters to men regarding all things relationships, …
Hey Readers, I’m back again with part 3 to the series, “Dear Men”. In part 2 of this series, I touched on the concept of …
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Every lesson that I have learned in my journey has made me evolve. However, there are some lessons that have stood out more than others. …
In the first blog post of this series, I spoke about women not being the enemy of a men. In truth, I believe that the …
In my new series called, “Dear Men”, I will be speaking to men from the heart of a good woman. While all men can take …
Family… Family relationships have always been the most important in my life. However, in all transparency, these relationships are the ones that have tried my …
Hello Readers, I hope you enjoyed last week’s blog post! Let’s get into this week’s post. I Knew I Was Growing When I Didn’t Clap …
Hello Readers, I hope you enjoyed last week’s blog post! Let’s get into this week’s post. I hope you can take something back from what …
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Hey readers, It’s been about three weeks since I disconnected from my Instagram platforms. I spent time reflecting as I prepared myself to begin my …
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Compassion is a beautiful characteristic; but it can also be the same beauty of a person that others may take for granted… Compassion is defined …
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Fathers… What an important role you play in a child’s life. Despite what the world says a Father is supposed to do, which is, provide …
What I learned from my own healing journey is that there are three roads to travel to get to a place where we’re absolutely delivered …
Sometimes we tend to take life for granted. As much as we say life is short, I believe most people aren’t paying attention to time. …
I believe that relationships are so important for our journey, as they allow us to learn about ourselves and grow at the same time. I have …
Last May, I sat on the beach in Boca Raton, Florida, looking out at the ocean, listening to the waves and speaking to God. I …
When I first started my journey of self-discovery, I wanted to share everything I was learning. So, I started this blog and my social media …
Who Were You Before the Pain? This question is one of the first questions I had to answer when I first set out on my …
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I learned earlier in this journey that some of my responses to shitty life moments (SLM) in relationships were not working out for the best. …
Hey Beautiful People, it’s been a minute; I hope everyone is well! For the year 2023, I am starting off in positivity and crazy faith, …
Nice people finish last… I believe when people generally articulate this statement, they’re speaking of a person’s life desires. For instance, the nice guy that …
Matching energy is a terminology that has been widely used across social media platforms. The term can be vocalized in a TikTok or Instagram Reels …
Friendships are formed based on where we are in life. If you were to look back on your friendships and analyze where you were mentally, …
The one thing I pride myself over is how great of a parent my friends are to their children. My sisters and girlfriends hold it …
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’Im so over this “strong black woman” label. It’s basically a set up for Black woman to fail in relationships because it’s being constantly taken …
In a recent post, I shared how my ability to be vulnerable was slowly dying mainly due to the experiences in my life. I learned …
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Submission without a vision is difficult to ask of a woman. Why? Because it compromises her peace of mind in wanting to feel safe and …
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Expressing feelings, showing emotions and sharing our thoughts was not very common amongst my people. There was no safe space within my circle to address someone’s emotional and/or mental health. Now, this isn’t because my people were assholes, it was simply because they did not know how to facilitate this environment for the ones that they loved.
I always struggled with what it truly meant to forgive a person. I only realized that this was a struggle when my way of forgiving …
If someone were to tell me seven years ago when I called Ms. Verna in tears telling her I wanted to begin the process of …
This is the final blog post, to my series called, ‘Fatherless Daughter’. For those who are now joining me, in these posts I take you …
In the previous blog posts in this series, I talk about the first four men I dated – none of those relationships were great experiences, …
Letting go of long-term relationships – I’m referring to those relationships that you’ve had since primary or high school – is never a good feeling …
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This is final blog post in a 4-part blog series. If you haven’t read parts one through three, you can catch up, starting from Fatherless …
In the first two blog posts of this series, I talk about how being a fatherless daughter had an effect on my first two relationships. …
[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text] Growing up without a father was my reality. Living without one now is still my reality, but the good thing about it …
Fatherless daughter. Yes, that’s me. Messed up, right? In some ways, it is. But don’t pity me. Sit back and listen to the struggle, because …
God if you can send me one person who’s not trying to sink the ship. God if you can send me one person who understands …
This time last year, I was in New Orleans (NOLA) for the first time, and I have to say, it was a trip that I’ll …
Fear can be a very dangerous virtue that keeps us stuck in life and discourages us from ever going for what we want in life. …
There’s nothing more painful than discovering that someone you hold dear has done something to break your trust. Moving forward after trust has been broken …
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I learned something about hurt and betrayal about a week ago, and I have to share: When people act out and behave in a way …
You ever think back to a man you used to deal with and wonder, “What the hell was I thinking when I hooked up with …
A couple of years ago, I decided to embark on a journey of self-discovery in order to heal from my past. But, as I healed …
A wise woman once told me that, “The hardest thing to do is walk alone. And when that time comes in your journey to walk …
This morning, when I woke up to check my social media, I saw a friend request from a man that I used to date. I …
One evening, my girl and I, and a bunch of her friends, went to Lil Wayne’s The Carter III concert. The concert was “lit!” And …
[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.2.1″] I’ve experienced a lot of death in my thirty-plus-one years on this earth. And, after every loss, I’d bounce back quickly …
Having dealt with a “man boy,” I’ve decided to try being single for a while, and to take a break from jumping into one relationship …
When I wanted to heal my broken heart, I spent a lot of days praying to get to that healing place. Once I did, my …
I searched for you in other people only to leave me broken by disappointment. I craved for our relationship but it was stolen by the …
We’ve all, at some point, done too much, or have overcompensated in a “situationship” to prove to the man we care for and can see …
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What I have learned so far on this journey is that, when I was younger, all the decisions that were made in my life were …
I was ready to know why I kept allowing people to hurt me, why my family was the way they are and why I kept …
What I realized is that most people who are broken are not even aware that they are broken. Many times we feel we have it …
I was tired of the disappointment! I could not understand how I would constantly find myself in the same situations that I knew only made …
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