Hey Beautiful People, it’s been a minute; I hope everyone is well! For the year 2023, I am starting off in positivity and crazy faith, and you better believe I’m going to try to keep this energy for the remainder of the year. But, more importantly, I’m taking you with me on this on this …
Nice people finish last… I believe when people generally articulate this statement, they’re speaking of a person’s life desires. For instance, the nice guy that keeps on being nice to the girl who mistreats him. I’ve often heard that a guy like this will most likely end up by himself, or not with the woman …
Matching energy is a terminology that has been widely used across social media platforms. The term can be vocalized in a TikTok or Instagram Reels rant, a Facebook or an Instagram quote; it’s a term that people have been demonstrating to others mainly because they feel they’re being disrespected, mistreated and/or misused by a person. …
Friendships are formed based on where we are in life. If you were to look back on your friendships and analyze where you were mentally, emotionally and spiritually, you will understand the connection you made with an ex-friend or friends. For instance, when my Grandmother died, it brought me and an old friend closer, but …
The one thing I pride myself over is how great of a parent my friends are to their children. My sisters and girlfriends hold it down like the world’s best mothers, and my bestie is the prime definition of what it means to be an amazing Father. They make the job look so easy …
All your friends are having children. You’re not. How to deal? Read More »
’Im so over this “strong black woman” label. It’s basically a set up for Black woman to fail in relationships because it’s being constantly taken out of context. This label gives the impression to others that Black women are almost “super human”, because we can go through just about anything, and not be effected by …
In a recent post, I shared how my ability to be vulnerable was slowly dying mainly due to the experiences in my life. I learned how my public façade masked my fears of getting hurt, and ultimately contributed to the breakdown in one of my relationships, as well as other reasons that are his to …
5 Reasons Why You May Be Struggling With Vulnerability Read More »
Submission without a vision is difficult to ask of a woman. Why? Because it compromises her peace of mind in wanting to feel safe and secure. I know this from experience. I believe there are many women that have a desire to submit to their man. Then, there are those women that believe that they …
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Expressing feelings, showing emotions and sharing our thoughts was not very common amongst my people. There was no safe space within my circle to address someone’s emotional and/or mental health. Now, this isn’t because my people were assholes, it was simply because they did not know how to facilitate this environment for the ones that they loved.
I always struggled with what it truly meant to forgive a person. I only realized that this was a struggle when my way of forgiving was causing me more pain than the person inflicting the wound. Let me explain. I would forgive a person and continue the relationship, only to have them do something else …
